Uncovering the Solution: Step-by-Step Guide to Resolving What's Bothering You
- SoulWell Now
- Feb 13
- 4 min read
Updated: Apr 11

Have you ever wondered how to resolve the things that trouble you most, whether it's fear, relationship struggles, lack of confidence, or any other concern? In this article, I'll walk you through a practical technique that can help you solve your problems—step by step.
Let’s start with a few examples of what you might want to address using this technique:
Overcoming specific fears
Opening up to a fulfilling romantic relationship
Losing weight
Improving your financial situation
Boosting your self-confidence
Increasing your energy and initiative
Feeling more fulfilled in your work
Relieving stress and feeling more relaxed and calm
Becoming happier
Nurturing yourself more
Now, let's dive in.
Step 1: Understanding the Root Cause of Your Problem
The first thing you need to realize is that every problem you face stems from an internal “program” — something embedded in your mind at a conscious or subconscious level.
This technique is about identifying and changing that program. By accessing your subconscious, we can replace your current program with a new one that will help you resolve your issue.
Step 2: Relax and Focus on Your Breathing
To begin, close your eyes and focus on your breathing. Continue to breathe slowly and deeply until you start to relax and let go. This marks the beginning of your journey into your subconscious.
As you relax, your subconscious opens up, allowing you to replace old programs with new ones — fresh thoughts, feelings, and emotions that can help you change your life for the better.
You can do this on your own or with the guidance of a therapist.
Step 3: The Five Key Steps for Success
The success of this technique is built on five crucial steps. These steps will guide you through the process of shifting your mindset and resolving your problem.
1. Have the Intention and Willingness to Change
To begin this journey, you need to be ready for change. You must be open to solving your problem and committed to improving your life. The first step is to make a decision: you want things to get better. You want to live a more fulfilling, easier life.
Understand that if you continue doing the same things, you'll continue getting the same results. To experience something different, you need to change how you think, feel, and act. Right now, you’re committed to making a change, and that intention is powerful.
2. Activation of Sensory Thoughts
In this phase, revisit the problem and bring awareness to it. You’ll reflect on your past experiences to uncover the triggers and causes behind your current situation.
For instance, if your problem is not having a fulfilling romantic relationship, you may need to revisit early experiences with relationships. These might go back to childhood, adolescence, or even later stages of life. Examine the memories and feelings that formed your subconscious program about relationships. Perhaps you witnessed constant conflicts, emotional sacrifices, or painful breakups — experiences that led to a belief that relationships are hard, painful, or not worth pursuing.
Similarly, if the issue is financial stress, reflect on the beliefs you’ve formed about money. Maybe you grew up with the idea that money is only for “bad” people, or that wealth is hard to come by. These beliefs can shape your current financial mindset, preventing you from attracting the prosperity you deserve.
3. New Insights, Thoughts, Emotions, and Actions
Now that you’ve become aware of the old programs, it’s time to replace them with new ones. By stating your desired outcome, you can shift your thoughts and feelings toward it. Thoughts influence beliefs, and when those thoughts are accompanied by positive emotions or mental images of success, they create a new reality.
Take a moment to envision your new situation. Imagine what it would feel like if your problem were resolved. For example:
In a fulfilling relationship, there’s love, mutual support, and respect for each other’s freedom. Visualize yourself in such a relationship, as though you’re dreaming it into existence.
With money, recognize that it is neutral. Both good and bad people can have wealth, and it simply allows people to express their true nature. Money is easy to obtain when you believe it is. More money creates more opportunities, and having it gives you the freedom to express your creativity and pursue your passions.
This is your chance to reframe your thinking. Envision the desired outcome, feel it, and start acting in alignment with this new mindset.
4. Consistency
The strength of your old program will determine how long it takes to replace it with a new one. At first, I recommend practicing this technique daily — preferably at the same time each day, such as every morning or evening. Repetition is key to creating lasting change, as the old patterns you want to change were built through repetition.
For example, a child who is repeatedly told they are beautiful will grow up believing it. Similarly, if a child is constantly told they are unattractive, they will internalize that belief. To change these beliefs, you must repeat new, positive thoughts and feelings consistently.
5. Confidence
Finally, confidence is the last crucial element in ensuring the success of this technique. You need to have confidence in yourself as you take action toward making changes. If you feel a genuine desire to improve, trust that it is your path, and follow it with commitment and confidence.
This confidence will empower you to carry out the necessary actions and maintain your dedication to change.
Conclusion
This technique empowers you to resolve your problems by identifying and changing the subconscious beliefs that hold you back. By following these steps with intention, consistency, and confidence, you can overcome any obstacle and live a more fulfilling life. Take the first step today, and start reshaping your reality!
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